Sometimes people don't want to hear bad news because they are afraid. She might have been afraid that she would get cancer and the thought that you might have cancer reminds her how close it is in your family. She is trying to play at being an ostrich, with her head in the sand. Sounds confusing, but it's true.

All we can do is say prayers and try to find the best doctors we can get.

I'm saying lots of prayers for you.

Donna
Cherish your yesterdays,
Dream your tomorrows,
But live your todays.
Do the very best you can
leave the rest to God.
God Bless,