Bridget, get another doctor. I wish I could recommend one. I didn't realize the "other" malignancy was auto-immune. My sister had that, and really wanted 3 children, but stopped at 2 so she'd be here for her kids. My sister found a good one here in MN.
I'm sorry your sister did not survive it.
It's understandable that a doctor will initially dismiss the concern because the vast majority are HPV related. However, if you show family history, then its no longer appropriate to dismiss it.


Micki
Mom to 9
Dx'ed Ocular Herpes, Sept. '08
Dx'ed AS May '09, suffering on and off since 1979
Dx'ed Non-Hodgkins Lymphoma May '08, relapse Oct '11