Oh Sue...that was a joke, I hope you didn't think that you offended me! I appreciate it, really I do...you know, losing our home in Katrina was much more painful than this, we lost all of our precious memories then, this is hard to explain this but I'll try, I'm not as emotionally vested anymore....I lost the material things I cherished the most in '05 and I have been very careful to keep it simple with the mind-set that if I lose my home again, it won't matter that much to me, I've been reluctant to decorate or personalize our home so that I wouldn't feel it so much if it happened again and I guess you get kind of used to losing your things after awhile...this is the third house we've lost to a hurricane in the last 3 years....I mean, what can you do? You can't just sit around and cry...you deal with it the best you can, you've got to be there for your family and try to move forward...