glad to see in your second post here that you say he's usually supportive and kind. so sounds like he's maybe a bit frustrated as well. my husband is usually really good, but he of course gets frustrated, its only natural.

its good to have a sounding board you can trust, sometimes its nice having someone who can see it with a different perspective than we can, but also someone who respects the final decisions that we make. that's a good balance i think, giving us their opinions, but leaving the final decisions up to us.

find its best to discuss these things, once the emotions have past, then have an honest but rational and calm discussion. no pointing fingers or accusing, but sharing how we are feeling with one another, and the other listening to that. no "you shoulds", no advice during this time.


sue

Spondyloarthropathy, HLAB27 negative
Humira (still methylprednisone for flares, just not as often. Aleve if needed, rarely.)
LDN/zanaflex/flector patches over SI/ice
vits C, D. probiotics. hyaluronic acid. CoQ, Mg, Ca, K.
chiro
walk, bike
no dairy (casein sensitivity), limited eggs, limited yeast (bread)