Rumble / Sharon,
i can't read all the posts / but ask you man to look into your eyes and tell him what you need, and what you want. WQe tend to "fix" things as we walk around the yard, garage, or even in the living room. I listen best, when she is aobut 18 inches form my face, and calls my name and says, will you do this for me?
I am sorry that we are >>>>>>>>>>>>>>
But many men are worth the extra effort... But it is often worth it to surprise us with a behavior tha tis new..

Still learning how to love and care..
Lon