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At midday today, June 7th 2003, my father lost his 8 year battle with cancer. The cancer began in his prostate gland but in more recent years had progressed to his bones. Nothing can be done to halt bone cancer. It's progress can be slowed, but not stopped. From New Year this year he was expected to live another 6-18 months. He managed just 6 of them, the first 5 being of reasonable quality. This time last year I was still playing golf with him on his better days. He was a remarkably strong man, and an impressively fit 71 year old even then. He died peacefully with both hands being held. Several family members including myself were able to be with him at the time. Lots of things have made today easier than it might have been. Being there with him at the time eases that sense of unreality that often accompanies the usual feelings of grief. Having a chance to properly say goodbye with a hug and a kiss while he was still conscious on Thursday allows a feeling of completeness that so many other mourners will miss. The staff at the hospice were wonderful. Dad earned the respect of many hundreds of people thoughout his very full life. He was loved.  Loz The next best thing to playing and winning is playing and losing {Never give up}
Loz - Life isn't always a matter of holding good cards, but sometimes of playing a poor hand well.
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My deepest sympathy to you and your family, the death of a loved one is one of the most difficult parts of our lives. I'm so glad you were with him and got to say a proper goodbye, that is so important. When Rick died I had no notice, it was too sudden, and will always regret not being able to tell him one more time how much he was loved. Take care of yourself too, grief can quickly deplete the body of strength and resiliance. I am so sorry for your loss. Cheryl  Dogs don't care if you make more money than they do
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My deepest sympathy to you and your family. You and yours are in my thoughts and prayers.
Take care,
Cara
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Hi Loz, My sympathy to you and your family. It is so hard to lose a loved one. Eric asked me to tell you that your Dad is now in a better place. While I know that does not help your heart right now, it will in time. You and yours are in our thoughts and prayers, and we will say a special prayer for your family tomorrow in church. Hugs my friend. Lori & Eric  
"You will find as you look back upon your life that the moments when you have truly lived are the moments when you have done things in the spirit of love........."   
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Loz. There are no words for a time like this. To know such a good man and he turns out to be be your own Dad is great. Lately my son has been telling me repeatedly what a great Mom I've been to him has been incredible. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. God Bless all of you. love, linda 
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Hello Loz So sorry to hear your sad news. I am glad you were with your Dad and had the chance to say your goodbyes. Cry your tears and soon you will be less sad that you lost him and so glad that you knew him. My thoughts are with you and your family. Carol 
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Loz, I'm so very sorry to hear the news of your dad. Shug and I are thinking of you and your family. Take care
Take care
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Loz.
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. I know that your Father knew how much he was loved, and I am sure that was a great comfort to him.
The grieving process is long and hard. My thoughts will be with you and your family during this time.
Your Father sounds like he was a remarkable person, and obviously had much love in his heart for his family, friends, and acquaintances.
Take care of yourself, and each other...... love with carry you through this.
Maxine
May the roof above us never fall in, and the many friends gathered below it never fall out. - Irish Blessing
May the roof above us never fall in, and the many friends gathered below it never fall out.
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Loz, I'm saddened by the news....my thoughts to you and your family, that picture of you and your dad says it all....
I am glad (if such can be the case in this situation) though that you and your family were there with him, and that he knew it--
Peace
Linc
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Loz My sincerest sympathy to you and your family... Unfortunately when I looked at the forum today and saw the topic of your post I was sure what it contained... Let the grief come and go... Remember the good times that you had together and I am very glad you were able to be with him at the end... You and yours will continue to be in our thoughts here and your post was a fitting eulogy for a great Dad... Mike 
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