Rumble,
So sorry you are dealing with hubby too, but you are right. Guys want to fix. They spend seconds in the emotional area then go straight to fix it. It is how they are wired. We are lucky that the guys here really get it because, unfortunately, they live it.
I think you are referring to Cindys post "subject for discussion" It was a very good post and one that I wanted to find time to add my two cents worth to. But life has been busy crazy. I have thought a lot about the posts on that thread. (I think I should make time to add to that now.)
I had two epidural shots at L5 on Monday. Hurt like hell! I wasn't in the least bit worried about being paralysed. I just want to be out of pain. It has been two years now. Turns out my original chiro did not diagnose a compression at L4-5. He was the first doc in what is now a long line of docs. You know the drill. I hope that you will be able to encourage your hubby to come to any appointments where he is worried and concerned for you.
Feel better.

Sharon