Hi Amy,
I'm sorry things didn't work out for you on the Remicade. I hope Humira is better suited for you. I was just about to post a message saying that I was going for my first Remicade infusion this afternoon and was feeling a little nervous about any reaction I may have. I was originally on Humira which didn't give me the results we were hoping for and most recently Enbrel. Unfortunately I developed a serious infection from the Enbrel so together with my rheummies we decided it was time to consider Remicade. I hope everything works out but I've got to be honest, I'm a little nervous about it. Hopefully I'll have the same nurse you speak so highly about(I say that because Kat and I have the same rheummie so I assume from your original post that you do as well).
Anyway, I'm so glad that you remain upbeat about it and you're right "there's no point in getting crusty about things you can't control!" (I love that!!!)
Good luck and take care.
Sera.